Are you a female in your 20s and still single? Do your friends give you grief about it? Don’t feel bad because you are not doing anything wrong. Society has made women think that they are supposed to get married and have kids before they are 30. If they don’t then they are considered social outcasts who will forever be alone. That is all malarkey and you should never listen to people like that. In fact, staying single in your 20s is becoming more popular as women are becoming more independent and focusing on their careers. Plus, in this bad economy it is more difficult to afford raising a family. Sure, you can be like some women and collect welfare checks from the government while you have more kids. But, this is not going to make you happy in your life. If you stay single then you only have to focus on yourself, which can be hard enough. Besides, just because you are single in your 20s doesn’t mean it will be that way in your 30s, 40s and 50s. You can always get married or start dating later on in life.
In your 20s it is better to get educated with a college degree so you can start advancing in a career later on. That way when you are older you will make more money and be able to afford having a companion and possibly to start a family with that person.
When you are in your 20s you probably like going out a lot with friends. If you are single you can go out anytime you want for as late as you want. You don’t have a husband or wife to call to tell you’re going to be late. You can live free and put your mind at ease while doing whatever you want as a single person. You may be thinking, “But what if I am single with kids?” Well, you don’t have to get married just to give your kids a father. Staying single is actually better for kids because at least they don’t have two parents that are ever arguing or adding tension in the home. As a single woman raising kids, there will be less drama in your life and your kids’ lives. Then they will grow up to be happier adults and you will be happy because you made that happen.
Relationships in the 21st century are overrated and more people are realizing that independent living is the way to go.